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The Round Table / Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Last post by tellomon on November 09, 2024, 12:18:44 AM »
The narcissist knows they are addicted to supply and this is why they use “hot-cold” or “push pull” tactics throughout the relationship. The intermittent reinforcement system of rewards and punishments wreaks havoc on the target/survivor’s brain.

In essence survivors become addicted to “hope”. Hope that things will get better, hope that the narcissists will appreciate you again, hope that you still matter to them. The trauma-bond is so strong that some in the psychological community liken it to coming off of heroin.

The trauma-bond is so hard to break that survivors need a period of “no contact” to remember who they were before the narcissist. Keep healing survivors.
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The Round Table / Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Last post by tellomon on November 09, 2024, 12:08:58 AM »
:rofl:
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The Round Table / Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Last post by tellomon on November 09, 2024, 12:00:32 AM »
Why do narcissists think everyone is stupid?

The truth is, narcissists are stupid people who believe they are smart people just because they can manipulate and deceive you by taking advantage of your trust, confidence, and feelings.

Narcissists are cunning; they will deceive you and then make you look stupid. Narcissists are liars and manipulators; they will mix lies with truth to challenge your knowledge, experience, and information to put you down. Narcissists will also take the help of flying monkeys to fool you.

Narcissists believe they are smarter than others, so if people get fooled by them, then it's not their problem or fault. Narcissists regulate their self-esteem by putting themselves up in front of everyone.

Narcissists believe their partners and people are stupid to easily believe their lies and deceptions; for easily believing their lies and deceptions. All their lives, narcissists have taken advantage of people's kindness, trust, and feelings.

Narcissists overestimate themselves and underestimate everyone. In the end, narcissists get figured out. Time reveals the reality of narcissists.
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The narcissist thinks you're stupid when you first let them into your life. They believe you lack intelligence and common sense, considering you an idiot because, in their eyes, they already know they're no good. This is a significant factor in whether they'll come back to you because they prefer to be around people they think are not smart.

It all depends on how you respond after everything you've been through with them. Once you've been involved with them, there are lessons to be learned. You should examine what you did wrong and correct your behavior so that you're no longer the same person.

After learning these lessons, you're not doing the same things you used to do, making you less susceptible to their manipulation. They don't have the same amount of influence and control over you as they did before; you have changed.

However, some people keep going back to the narcissist even after everything they've shown and done. You need to make the necessary changes to your behavior, and then the narcissist will notice that you have changed.

Recognize your worth and importance, but be prepared because the narcissist won't like you anymore. You might lose friends because they perceive you as thinking you're better than them, but, in reality, you've just woken up from the spell.

You're no longer impressed by things and no longer conform to other people's opinions, values, beliefs, and tastes. Your different interests and changed view of life mean you're not eager to be together with other people as you used to be, responding to their requests at hand.
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They can think or perceive or assume that people are stupid. Who confirm or affirm them? Haha... NO ONE. Narcs are toddlers in adult bodies. They only want people to play their mind f*ck games. Let's not partake. We are grown ups.


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The Round Table / Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Last post by tellomon on November 08, 2024, 06:12:18 AM »
It was gone and now it's back

Tales from the Narc side - Presented by Ron Tello with a DRUM show!!


Watcher of Crazy
1.18K subscribers
838 views  Streamed live on Jan 18, 2024


Please join me and panel guest Ron Tello as we discuss his Tales from the Narc side. Many of you know him as Ron Tello the "Mayor" of Montello, the creative, eccentric, funny and long haired dude that used to live in Montello, NV and known to build and beat a mean drum. After exercising his 2nd Amendment right to protect himself, he was held in Elko Co. jail for 357 days. Once released he was unable to return back to his home and he now considers himself a Political Refugee and resides in California. We will also celebrate his 66th birthday with him. If you would like to send him a few dollars to say Happy Birthday, his paypal info is below.
Paypal email for Ron: m86thecat@yahoo.com

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The Round Table / Re: The Tello Files. (All things strange, witnessed, verifyable and/or credible (?)
« Last post by tellomon on November 07, 2024, 11:44:44 AM »
YouTube is giving me sh!t.


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The Round Table / Re: The Tello Files. (All things strange, witnessed, verifyable and/or credible (?)
« Last post by tellomon on November 07, 2024, 07:29:49 AM »
:yess:
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The Round Table / Re: The Tello Files. (All things strange, witnessed, verifyable and/or credible (?)
« Last post by tellomon on November 06, 2024, 01:41:17 PM »
25630 Replies
3168667 Views

:tello: "THREE MILLION, one hunnerd and sixty-eight THOUSAND, six hunnerd an sixty-7".
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The Round Table / Re: TelloVision ~~ "What I have seen and the way I see it".
« Last post by tellomon on November 06, 2024, 01:35:49 PM »
Early call......
Tools.
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The Round Table / Re: DARK SOULS ARE THE COMMON DENOMINATOR
« Last post by tellomon on November 06, 2024, 01:34:47 PM »
Early call......
Tools.
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The Round Table / Re: Tales From The Narc Side
« Last post by tellomon on November 06, 2024, 01:33:32 PM »
Early call......
Tools.
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