For some of us, making boundaries isn’t easy because of childhood issues. Remember a boundary isn’t to keep people out or direct them how to behave.
A boundary is what we tell others what we will and won’t tolerate for our own personhood and comfort. We Are Allowed To Have Our Boundaries. DO NOT LET THE NARCISSISTIC PERSON minimize or disregard your boundaries, as not important or fair.
Only you decide what’s fair in what you will and won’t tolerate. It’s okay for you to have a boundary and walk away when you feel you are being disrespected or having your boundaries violated. Journal it, and if it happens three times or more it’s a pattern and it’s a toxic relationship. Healthy people will respect your boundaries and discuss your discomforts. Narcissistic abuse survivors, keep Learning and Healing.