A narcissist doesn't want your love. They don't know what love is. They don't understand the concept of mutual respect, empathy, and genuine connection. Instead, they crave something far more superficial - your admiration and your obedience.
To them, you're not a person with thoughts, feelings, and desires. You're a pawn in their game of self-aggrandizement, a player in their make-believe world of grandeur and superiority. They need you to validate their delusions, to feed their ego, and to worship them as the center of the universe.
They'll charm and manipulate you, using every trick in the book to keep you in their orbit. But don't be fooled - it's not love they're offering. It's a toxic cocktail of control, gaslighting, and emotional exploitation.
They'll demand your attention, your praise, and your devotion. They'll expect you to sacrifice your own needs, desires, and boundaries to cater to their every whim. And if you don't comply, they'll punish you with tantrums, silence, the withdrawal of their "affection" or even worse ....the Narcissistic DISCARD.
But remember, their "love" is a farce. It's a disguise for their own insecurities, their own fears, and their own emptiness. They're not capable of genuine intimacy, of vulnerability, or of true connection. They're only capable of using and discarding, like a puppeteer manipulating their next victim.
So don't fall for the trap. Don't confuse their grandiose gestures with genuine affection. See them for what they are - a master manipulator, a user, and a narcissist. And run, run as fast as you can, before they suck the life out of you.